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Lots of bad "red pill" advice in the thread.
All shit tests are lies. You pass if you don't believe it. You fail if you believe it. In this case, from the posted evidence we can't tell which lie it is.
She's saying, "You're disgusting and we're breaking up, but I don't want to break up with you." This is obviously a lie. However, we can't tell if she's lying about finding him gross, or lying about staying with him. Women will cry about being alone even if they're with a disgusting loser, so we don't know if she's sad he's leaving or sad she he left before she jumped.
If you're in the man's position, you probably know which lie is the lie, if you consider for even a second that it might be a lie.
However, if you don't know, you can just ask. "Okay, you find me gross. Did you just break up with me? Are we separated now?" Since she hid it the first time she will hide it the second time too, and get all defensive. That means you just won. Exploit the opening and capitalize on victory. Either by making her admit she just broke up with you, or by making her admit she doesn't find it gross. "Oh? We're still together? So it's not gross, you just lied about it."
Remember, Morpheus wants you asleep; clue's in the name. Both red and blue pills are poison. He gets you either way.
Basically the man was weak. He couldn't confront her about finding him gross, because he couldn't confront himself about being found gross. He hid from her as a way of hiding from himself. If she really had stopped finding him attractive, he could have at least ended it right away and stopped wasting time. Also avoided the guilt-tripping.
It is not at all impossible that she stopped finding him attractive because he is weak. Do you think this was the first time he backed down from confrontation in an attempt to avoid a loss? The first time he let her get away with lying to him?
Don't forget that, just as it's normal to get a boner from a little cuddling, it's normal for women to hate and fear their lovers. Disgust turns her on. This isn't a contradiction, this is woman. E.g. if you scare her, you also make her wet. In a woman, the neurons for fear and lust are literally touching and get each other excited. It's merely a matter of balancing the curves - don't make her a lot more scared for only a little more wet. You can substantially scare her by sneezing loudly; don't overdo it.
She hates it when you call her on her lies, just as a man does. Makes her lose and thus feel like a loser. Unlike a man, up to a point this makes her want to spend more time with you, rather than less.
Women are often very good at expressing the disgust and very bad at expressing the associated affection. Again, because women. Socially awkward on a good day. Women know how to communicate with nonverbal crying babies, not realized articulate adults. If she doesn't have to take care of its every need she doesn't really know what to do with it. She subcontracts all her communication skills to you.
Although it isn't impossible this man is weak, it's also not impossible
that what she meant by "your sexualization of me is disgusting" is
"fuck yeah do it more, do it harder." "Your veiny cock is the grossest thing I need it inside me every time I think of it."
"Quick note he doesn't push me for intimacy." Perhaps that was her real issue - she wanted him to. She needed him to. Wanted him to sexually ream her out until being half-unable to walk was a daily event.
When he didn't telepathically pick up on this (men are smarter than women ==> women think of men as omniscient) she concluded he wasn't that into her and died a little inside. "You don't truly think I'm hot. Do you get hard-ons even for animals? Stuffed toys?" Well, that's gross, isn't it? And not the fun kind.
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