Marriage has been arranged for something like 150,000 years, and probably more like 500,000. Women don't get to pick.
Marriage is still arranged. Today, the State arranges for women to marry itself. Because duh, who doesn't want a harem of [everyone]. If you were expecting unselfishness, you are a moron.
The State's women are then told to whore themselves out for daddy. The State is literally the worst possible husband, and nobody would agree to marry it if she didn't hate herself.
Adulteresses get to choose a little. All women are either wives or whores, but whores can be divided into streetwalkers, who fuck whoever their pimp tells them to fuck, and courtesans, who are allowed to execute some level of discretion. Naturally, under Egalitarianism, these whores are allowed to pretend to be courtesans.
Just never forget you can't marry a modern women, because she's already married. Your options are to be a rake, a cad, a sneaky fucker fornicating with another
man's institution's wife, or a john, fornicating with a whore. If she calls you husband, that's just a lie.
Surprisingly, some of these whores do keep up the husband experience rather well. Divorce rates aren't actually 100%, even among Bantu. It's technically possible to even have a whore who pretends to be a wife so well she doesn't take another john while servicing you.
Of course, such
wives whores generally don't show up on the internet. Their play-husbands have better things to do than give away words for free to degenerate strangers.