Gender War as Cope

 So-called men are subconsciously aware they're not good enough for marriage.
The whores who demand to be called women are aware they're not marriageable.

 However, if the whores can blame the gay boys, and the gay boys can blame the whores, they can distract themselves from their painful self-awareness. "There's no good men." Thus no reason for me to stop being bad, she doesn't say.
 Commoners always cast blame for the purpose of justifying the inaction they were doomed to anyway.
The universal commoner cope is the claim they're not commoners, incapable of action.

 At an intermediate level we can blame the government. The whores and boys are doing what they're told. "But I wanted to be a whore like I was  told, and be marriageable!" Sure, and I want to find a dozen fully armed, staffed, and loyal nuclear ICBM silos in my back yard, but that's not how that works.

 However, this reflects back on the voters. You can in fact simply disengage from the government. "You want me to be a what now? Ah, you're my enemy, I see." Instead, this is consensual non-con. Demand for oppression, demand for tyranny. When the boys and their whores complain about the [dating market] the insult is backhanded. They're letting the government know the oppression is working and they should keep doing it. They can't openly approve because it's supposed to be non-con. Would break the roleplay.       

 The important part is to make sure it really is hurting them, and not some kind of masochistic pleasure. It's important that they pay off their  karma so they can go properly extinct, lightly for their sake and mainly for your own. If it's not hurting them, it's time for non-consensual non-con. Tyrannize them openly.

 

 My belief: during the low tech times, many souls arrived on Earth with karma so bad they couldn't live past infancy. Couldn't pay off any of  their debt. Technology had to be forcibly raised so that it could prop up their weak existence, that they might live long enough to suffer.

 A big backlog developed. Unjustly low depravity had to be balanced by today's concentrated depravity.

 However, it turns out they didn't need to live long. Perhaps they suffered so tremendously during their brief tenure that it didn't take much. Now more souls are being forgiven for existing than are Falling to Earth. As such, birth rates have to come down, and given that, something has to justify the lack of births. 

 One of those things is lack of sex. Not coincidentally, these mutant souls which can't survive childhood also can't find a mate. Mortals adjust their standards based on their own position, but there is a floor. The standards can only be adjusted so low.

 That is: birth rates below 0.75 would be a good thing, that is, unless you want to maximize suffering, despair, and failure. Not forgetting that caring at all about how a bunch of strangers feel is a serious mental illness.

 Alternatively there was a war in heaven, which means lots of dead immortals, which means lots of bonus mortal souls. It would require more epicycles but it's not impossible.