Stop thinking about what morally ought to keep your girlfriend with you and keep her from cheating, and think about what would actually cause her to stay and/or not cheat. Stop trying to be persuasive and start throwing up fences.
Also, do the accounting. Is she worth the fences? Are you trying to tame a whore? Is this whore anywhere near hot enough to be worth the investment? Can you afford all the fences you need? Are the risks inherent to neglecting the expensive fences in any way reasonable risks?
It is worth asking if the girl thinks some kind of behaviour is immoral, because a ton of girls are dumb enough to admit to thinking immorality is good. Reminder that the converse is meaningless. Any girl can mouth the right answer.
Reminder: if you leave off an expensive fence and then your girl trespasses in that direction, you can't get mad. That's all on you. Have an exit strategy instead. Maybe tell her about it in advance and hope she can scrounge up enough consciousness to be deterred.
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