Just a question I want to flesh out next.
If you had a choice between being yourself, the person you are now that you defend as yourself, and being happy, fulfilled, joyful, etcetera, which would you choose?
If you could slowly turn from yourself into happy?
If you had a hard choice, and you had to suddenly become someone totally different - someone happy?
If you were allowed to keep a few totally cosmetic quirks?
Which would you choose?