Look at the shit they have to pull to deal with their terminal approach anxiety.
https://nitter.unixfox.eu/coldhealing/status/1585642130621763584
If she just asked him out - especially the ones on the right - it's very very likely to work. However, she genuinely cannot handle rejection, so you get this instead.
The kind thing to do is notice her frantic plotting, take pity on her, and ask her out yourself...
Lol why would a man who was attractive to women be interested in someone who has obvious externalised anxiety?
ReplyDelete"Hmm.. I have a choice of this spergping weirdo OR this one who appears to be normal"
They hide it, obviously. Attractive men have options. They aint gonna hit on some woman who doesn't have their shit together.
Note in all of the stories the plotting includes their basic pretence that they weren't, in fact, filled with anxiety when dealing with the partner.
They try to engineer a situation where it doesn't seem like they're trying to get the guy to ask them out, you see?
So, strong disagree. Take my advice here - if you notice a woman frantically plotting, you should definitely reject her.
Or, more classically "dont stick your dick in crazy".
>woman without anxiety
ReplyDeleteYeah yeah, I get you - it's like a man without horny.
ReplyDeleteBut you can learn how to control your emotional state to a degree.
I get your position.
ReplyDeleteI just don't think it's entirely congruent with (social) reality.
Everyone has anxiety, it is a vital emotional tool. You need anxiety to cross the road.
(And of course I want to understand your perspective. It should be obvious that I value it.)
Hmm.
Why do you think women have approach anxiety?